Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Yet another boring day in school. Ahmad, moi lab partner will be M.I.A-ing for the whole of this week. Lonely to the next level eh tontuan dan pompuan, no one to nagged too, no one to layan my nonsense. *sigh* sad state i m in. On the lighter note, i have finally decided what to do with my life. Ok ok so if u are interested, this is my big big break... ready?
I m gonna continue studying!
Not shocking rite! Hehehehe... anyways, whats my brilliant masterplan is to grad, work for like a year or so... depends on how much it will cost to study overseas, save up plenty so that i don’t have to worry about starving myself over there.. and when i say there i meant united state of america (errr meh reee kaaah!) stay with a fren *wink* *wink* and graduate with a degree before i drag my ass back to asia. I m not to fond of emigarting to a totally diffrent continent, bak kata perpatah errrr.... i can’t remember... anyways... i rather stay where my family is at...
Met with mentee recently ( the kid i mentor from muhammadiyah), he finally opened up about his family... only now did i realised why the heck does he no likey his mommy tat mucho... well i shall not elaborate.... its really heartbreaking to see the state anak-anak melayu zaman sekarang. Why settle for slumps? Its a vicious cycle, it starts from the parents then the cycle is passed down to the kids.
I really don’t get the mentality of these people. I m saying this in general and not pointing out to anyone in paticular. Similarity to any events is purely coincidental. So lets say u start with a baby boy and call him mat. Mat lives in a 3 room flat with 4 other siblings, his father work as a technician and his mother is a full time housewife. He goes to secondary school stream under normal technical where he spend 4 years of his life getting into trouble and hope one day he can make it big as a national soccer player. Barely scrap through N levels, he then proceed to ITE doin a course related to engineering. He then mixed with the wrong people and got his first bike. Where he then proceed to join some random motorcycle design group. At this point on, he met with his future wife, minah, another student doin some cosmetic course in ITE. He graduate ITE and goes straight to NS. After doing 2 years of National service, he works as a technician after being recommended by a fellow fren or a family member. Eventually mat and minah went overboard and minah is pregnant. So no other choice but shot-gunned wedding. After stay with each other for like 5 years and have 2 wonderful kids, mat/minah starts to “main giler” (have an affair) . mat/minah couldn’t take the hardship and was hoping for something better. Thus they got a divorce and the kids get in trouble coz they wanted their parents attention. Parents are constantly bickering bout the small stuff.. eventually the kids grow up and the story repeats itself.
Why does everything have to happen in the heat of the moment? Why does all have to resolve in divorce?
I read a friend’s blog recently which actually made alot of sense. Every single time, this minority keeps whining on how unfair life is for them and how people look down on them. Why not instead of trying to change society, take the time and reflect on ur own life. Its a dog eat dog world out there, every man/woman on their own. If u think with no education and hope to make big bucks, YOU ARE WRONG! No one gives a fuck about you. With the economy at the slumps, every single job vacancy will be taken under consideration and do you really think that someone with no qualification can secure a job without worrying bout the future? With all the dire necessities bills going high, do you really think that with a salary of $800 you can life contented?
This is not 1960s, there is no free lunch in this world buddy! Learn dammit! Don’t stop till your head hurts. And once, your done, you shall reap what you sow. Imagine, a big desk in a huge room in the tallest building, plenty of people sucking up to you. And all you do is just sign papers learn golf and join some random rich guys to talk about business proposal. After that, drive your BMW newest series to ur big big bungalow and welcomed home by your wife/husband and kids.
It all can happen and all you need to do is never ever give up and settle for mediocre.
Thats all for today... till then, blog soon peeps!
9:15 PM
